When my father told my mother in an Ohio courtroom that she would leave with nothing, he thought the most dangerous thing in that room was his attorney. He was wrong. It was the plain envelope in my hands—and the fact that, for once, he had no idea what I knew.
The first time I understood that a courtroom could sound like a church and a slaughterhouse at the same time was the morning my father told my mother she would leave with nothing. We were in Franklin County Domestic Relations Court in Columbus, Ohio, on a gray Thursday that smelled like wet wool and…
