D34 My children took me to the bank ‘just to simplify things,’ then slid a power of attorney form across the desk and told the manager I was getting forgetful. I smiled, signed nothing, and asked for the restroom. Ten minutes later, I walked out with the branch president, my estate attorney on speakerphone, and one question that made all three of my children stop breathing.
“Which one of you ordered the cashier’s check for $480,000 before I died?” For a moment, the bank office went so quiet I could hear the little wall clock ticking above the framed poster about retirement planning. My oldest son, Alan, looked down at the papers. My daughter, Beth, pressed her lips together so…
