He said, ‘Don’t make plans, Mom — we’ve got your birthday handled.’ I drove three and a half hours in a new dress, knocked on a dark front door, and by nightfall I understood exactly what place I still held in my son’s life.
They told me not to make plans for my seventieth birthday. My son’s exact words were, “Don’t you dare make any plans, Mom. We’ve got everything handled this year.” He said it once on the phone while I was standing in my kitchen in Knoxville with a grocery list in my hand and a roast…
