My parents spent my brother’s wedding telling people I was the child they still worried about. By dinner, I was at table 11 beside the catering corridor, half-hidden from the dance floor, while my father stood at the head table praising Connor as the son who had made us all proud. Then a man from the bride’s side crossed the room, pulled out the empty chair beside me, and asked my father in a voice half the room could hear, “Sir, do you know what your daughter actually does?”
My mother has a way of talking about me that makes me feel like furniture. Present, occasionally useful, never really the thing anyone came to see. By the time dinner was served at my brother Connor’s wedding, she had told enough people some variation of the same story that half the room seemed to…
